Love, laugh and learn

Hand-in-hand with “playfulness” comes laughter i.e. being able to see the funny side in a situation or, at least, having the necessary level of non-attachment to find a way to laugh notwithstanding the challenges of our circumstances. For this reason, I like the love-laugh-learn combination: love implies always being open and receptive; laugh is synonymous with non-attachment and playfulness, and; learn connotes the recognition that in every life experience there’s an opportunity to grow spiritually, which is an empowering insight.

On the topic of laughter, it’s clear that the aim is never to hurt a person, never to laugh at him/her. Laughing at is only possible when we’re in the illusion of separateness; as soon as we resonate with the tantric concept that we’re all energetically one being, we can only ever laugh with another person.

“Tantra asks us to go beyond the traditional stance of the cool, utterly detached observer of all our experiences. It recommends the more refined position of witnessing while at the same time understanding that observer and observed are not ultimately distinct. The Tantric approach is to see all life experiences as the play of the same One.”[1]

Sam Red, 1 August 2015

[1] Feuerstein, G. (1998) Tantra: the Path to Ecstasy. Shamballa Publications: Boston & London, p.60.

12 thoughts on “Love, laugh and learn

  1. Thank you for your commits on my blog posts and I would add that your perspective in words are indeed refreshing. I also agree that laughter is just about the most import ingredient in all things.

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    • Thanks so much for your kind feedback, Dan. I look forward to continuing to follow and comment on your posts, which I also find “refreshing”. Greetings, Sam 🙂


  2. I haven’t explored the “Tantric” concept. It sounds like a very Zen based approach. I sometimes emvrace Zen in my daily life as a way of being Now. I do though enjoy relativity and emblishing tbings in a enjoyable level.

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    • Thanks for your feedback 🙂 I’m not very familiar with Zen, but yes, I believe that Tantra and Zen have the concept of “mindfulness” and the “present moment” in common, amongst other things. Greetings, Sam 🙂


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